Relationships
Hasn't really bothered me ever since i broke up with Yin Bing. After all these time, i hasn't been a wonderful lover, for all i know.
There are certain some problems you faced when you are in a relationship, either BGR, BBR, GGR or even B/G AR(Body/Girl animal relationship).
1. Way of approached and being turned down.
Hey ppl, if your partner tells you they are out enjoying themselves, never ever let them know you are bored. Instead, tell them you have something to do also.
Example:
Me : Darling, wanna go out?
Her : Hey baby, i'm out with my friends shopping...
Me : Oh ok, then i think i'll meet my buddies out for coffee. Enjoy urself. =)
Her : Ok, i contact u when i reach home k? love ya..
This will normally happen.
Things will most likely happen another way if your approach/reaction is wrong.
Me : Darling, wanna go out?
Her : Hey baby, i'm out with my friends shopping...
Me : ok, enjoy urself. love ya.
(At this point of time, she'll feel so guilty)
Her : if u wan i can meet u after that.
Me : Nah, its ok. u enjoy urself k? =)
(The smiling face doesn't help)
Her : ok la.. i come meet u now..
Me : its really ok, u go enjoy ur shopping session, reach home then call me..
(She's even more guilty now)
Her : u always like that 1. hmph!
Then all the rubbish, unnecessary comes in. *fuc*k*
This is what i learnt from my past relationship. ;)
2. Have a good talk everytime problems arise.
There are no such things as perfect relationship, for sure. Unless you're dating a Goddess like Belldandy. haha. Have a good talk, do not constraint yourself for saying hurtful things, this doesn't meet you can say it purposely too. If there is a need to say such things, just say it, let her know how are you feeling deep down inside. Being honest to each other is more important than you think. After having a good chat, most like, your problems will be solved.
3. Do not fucking commit everything
Committing everything, going all out, will make you being over-posessive. You will be at the losing end, and nobody likes it when someone cares for them too much. Being caring, loving her, you also need to be considerate. You can't expect her to be with you all the time. She has friends too, she need to do her own things, at her own time, her own pace. You'll also compare your love for her, and feel that she doesn't love you enough. Eh, wake up already. So what if she love her SO much, it doesn't make you have more money so you can get married earlier.
4. Mutual trust between each other.
This takes both party to commit themselves, having trust in each other. Just because my girlfriend going out with some other guys doesn't make her betray me, or stop loving me. please... If you don't even trust her, then break up, stop the pain you get everytime you guys are not together.
5. Don't ever forget your friends.
This is the hardest thing to accompolish when you are in a relationship. It takes up too much time. But be sure, your girlfriend might not be the person you are gotta marry. But friend are always there when you need them(maybe for me.). So don't ever forget them, because they will be there to listen when you relationship gets bitter.
Writing this post is so lame, but i can't help it. Haven't been going out alot since im playing too much, writing about the funs we have in game doesn't make this blog interesting. Anyway, i hope qiang will read this and same goes to anyone reading this. These pointers might be helpful to you. Not a love guru here, but hope it helps. Even a little. =)
There are certain some problems you faced when you are in a relationship, either BGR, BBR, GGR or even B/G AR(Body/Girl animal relationship).
1. Way of approached and being turned down.
Hey ppl, if your partner tells you they are out enjoying themselves, never ever let them know you are bored. Instead, tell them you have something to do also.
Example:
Me : Darling, wanna go out?
Her : Hey baby, i'm out with my friends shopping...
Me : Oh ok, then i think i'll meet my buddies out for coffee. Enjoy urself. =)
Her : Ok, i contact u when i reach home k? love ya..
This will normally happen.
Things will most likely happen another way if your approach/reaction is wrong.
Me : Darling, wanna go out?
Her : Hey baby, i'm out with my friends shopping...
Me : ok, enjoy urself. love ya.
(At this point of time, she'll feel so guilty)
Her : if u wan i can meet u after that.
Me : Nah, its ok. u enjoy urself k? =)
(The smiling face doesn't help)
Her : ok la.. i come meet u now..
Me : its really ok, u go enjoy ur shopping session, reach home then call me..
(She's even more guilty now)
Her : u always like that 1. hmph!
Then all the rubbish, unnecessary comes in. *fuc*k*
This is what i learnt from my past relationship. ;)
2. Have a good talk everytime problems arise.
There are no such things as perfect relationship, for sure. Unless you're dating a Goddess like Belldandy. haha. Have a good talk, do not constraint yourself for saying hurtful things, this doesn't meet you can say it purposely too. If there is a need to say such things, just say it, let her know how are you feeling deep down inside. Being honest to each other is more important than you think. After having a good chat, most like, your problems will be solved.
3. Do not fucking commit everything
Committing everything, going all out, will make you being over-posessive. You will be at the losing end, and nobody likes it when someone cares for them too much. Being caring, loving her, you also need to be considerate. You can't expect her to be with you all the time. She has friends too, she need to do her own things, at her own time, her own pace. You'll also compare your love for her, and feel that she doesn't love you enough. Eh, wake up already. So what if she love her SO much, it doesn't make you have more money so you can get married earlier.
4. Mutual trust between each other.
This takes both party to commit themselves, having trust in each other. Just because my girlfriend going out with some other guys doesn't make her betray me, or stop loving me. please... If you don't even trust her, then break up, stop the pain you get everytime you guys are not together.
5. Don't ever forget your friends.
This is the hardest thing to accompolish when you are in a relationship. It takes up too much time. But be sure, your girlfriend might not be the person you are gotta marry. But friend are always there when you need them(maybe for me.). So don't ever forget them, because they will be there to listen when you relationship gets bitter.
Writing this post is so lame, but i can't help it. Haven't been going out alot since im playing too much, writing about the funs we have in game doesn't make this blog interesting. Anyway, i hope qiang will read this and same goes to anyone reading this. These pointers might be helpful to you. Not a love guru here, but hope it helps. Even a little. =)
posted by Joel | 3:06 AM
1 Comments:
Until this post, i guess i shld have show up for a bit. =P Used to keep track of ur blogs, msn nicks etc, to see if everythign is doing okie with you. And i dun really wish u to know abt all these, cos i know the pain is still inside u.. sorry that i have let u down. =)
Anyway, better catch up with ya sch works boy, no playing too much. =) All the best. Take good care of yourself.
cya ^^
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